Baby Your Baby Fair – Bonner Mall * Sandpoint ID
It’s just around the corner – the Baby Your Baby Fair. It will be once again held inside the Bonner Mall in Ponderay on April 12. I am excited to once again organize this event. I am planning a lot more events, games, and giveaways. One of my plans is to have a radio remote host come out and be LIVE during 2 hours of the event. I am currently looking for some sponsors to help with the expense of the advertising. If you or anyone that you know would be intersted in sponsoring a part of Baby Your Baby event, please contact me as soon as possible.
On another note… I want to introduce you to the new face of Baby Your Baby Fair………. drum roll please….
This is a beautiful client of mine. He has the most beautiful eyes and loves his momma very much!!
I hope to see yall come out and take a peek at all the vendors and activities that will be going on at the Baby Your Baby Fair. It will be a lot of fun.
Here is another picture of Mr. Blue Eyes. If you are a vendor and would like to participate in the baby fair, please contact me and I will email or mail you out an application form.
I hope everyone has a wonderful and healthy weekend! Be safe and make good choices ~ Jackie
So I have been slacking on the blog, but as ya’ll know life can get pretty crazy at times.
A while ago my brother came to visit us and of course I couldn’t let him go back to Texas without grabbing some camera time 
I have a handful of boudoir pictures of some very awesome women, but the guys are lacking. So with a few bats of my eyes and a big chessey smile and lastly a resort to begging and nagging, he finally agreed to some photos! We did have fun and some laughs. He was a great sport through it all. It was extremely cold in the studio – the heater had turned off a few days ago so i really give him credit. Thank you Denton for doing this for me – you are an awesome brother!!! 
BLAST OUT Blog Tour for Trish Berg’s Latest Release… Rattled Surviving Your Baby’s First Year without Losing Your Cool!
Can you change a diaper faster than a rodeo cowboy ropes a calf? Need more sleep,
more laughter, and ten minutes in the bathroom – alone?
You must be a mom….Don’t let the clutter, chaos, exhaustion and Cheerio-dust get you Rattled.
With practical advice and scriptural reminders, author Trish Berg can help you not only survive the chaos and clutter of motherhood, but get back to the simple joy of being a mom.
I am excited to welcome Trish Berg, joining us today to talk about her new mom book, Rattled, Surviving Your Baby’s First Year without Losing Your Cool!
Trish is a national speaker for Hearts at Home, author of The Great American 
Supper Swap and Rattled. She has been published in Today’s Christian Woman, MOMSense, CBN.com, P31 WOMAN, and numerous regional and national publications.
Trish earned her MBA before leaving the workforce for motherhood, then earned her Doctorate in Diaper Changing in Ohio where she and her husband, Mike, keep busy raising their four children on their family cattle farm.
Trish, welcome. Thanks for taking time to be with us today.
Thanks for having me.
So why is it so easy for moms to get rattled during their baby’s first year?
Motherhood is simply draining and exhausting. Hands down the toughest job I have ever had.
But moms are not alone, and I want moms to know that God walks with them through these exhausting years.
What stresses moms out the most?
I think moms put a lot of pressure on themselves to do it all by themselves, and to do it all the right way. They need to simplify, let go of many details, and ask for help, from their husbands, and from neighbors and friends.
Rattled actually begins by looking at the months of pregnancy. How can moms use this time to prepare to survive baby’s first year?
Nine months is not nearly enough time to fully prepare for motherhood. I am not sure there is enough time to fully prepare.
I remember when our first child, Hannah, was born, I felt that my world had been turned upside down. Hannah did not like to sleep, and so we spent many nights walking the floor, bouncing her up and down, trying desperately to settle her down. My husband, Mike, and I took turns walking laps around the house, like the Indy 500 with a lot more bouncing.
I am not sure I could have prepared for that.
But during your pregnancy, you can prepare in other ways. Like arranging for help. Ask your mom or mother-in-law if they can spend one day with you each week during the first few months. Just knowing someone is coming in the morning to help with the baby can make the being up all night not seem so terrible.
You talk about surviving motherhood. How do you help moms do that?
In Rattled, I talk about a mom’s survival kit. If you were thrown out into the wilderness, you would need FOOD, SHELTER, FIRE and WATER to survive.
Well, moms have been thrown out into the wilderness of motherhood, and to survive, they will need:
Water from the word (2 Samuel 22:3a) –To be in God’s Word.
A fire like desire for prayer (1 Thessalonians 5:17) – Moms can pray their way through their day.
Nourishment body, mind and spirit (1 Corinthians 13:13) – Love on all levels nourishes us.
Shelter from life’s storms (Proverbs 17:17)-Friends to lean on, trust, and support us.
In Rattled, I spend some time talking about how moms can use that survival kit to get back to the joy of mothering.
You spent a lot of time listening to what other mothers had to say. Share with us your best advice for new moms.
I would tell moms to relax. No one does it right all the time. Let the laundry pile up. Leave the dishes in the sink, and just enjoy holding your baby today.
Don’t worry about doing “it” right, just enjoy the moments you have.
That is sound advice…
But what aboud dads? Give us a few tips into what dad is going through during the first year.
Dads are just as insecure as moms are about parenthood. Even more so in many cases.
Moms do much of the baby feeding, diaper changing, and baby care. So dads can sometimes feel left out, and incapable of caring for their own baby.
One thing moms can do is encourage dad to be involved. But in doing so, moms must let go of “their way” of doing things, and let dad discover his own way.
For example. When Hannah was a baby, every time Mike would change her diaper, I would criticize the way he changed it. I tried to teach him how to put his fingers under the leg elastic and make sure it wasn’t bunched up, preventing a future leak.
But every time I criticized him, he stepped back and became less involved. And you know what? Even when I did the diapers the “right way” they still sometimes leaked.
So I had to learn to let Mike change her diaper his own way. I let him put her to bed his way, bathe her his way, and be the dad God wanted him to be.
That can be difficult for moms who can tend to be slight control freaks when it comes to baby care.
But let me just encourage you that the help you will get from dad if you can let go of those details will bless you in more ways than you can imagine!
In Rattled you’re very open about the loss of your own pregnancy in 2002. How has that loss changed your outlook on motherhood?
I in the 2nd trimester of my fourth pregnancy when I went in for a regular check up. I was not having any problems at all, and went in alone.
My OB/GYN performed an ultrasound just to check for twins, and suddenly my world turned upside down when he could not find a heart beat.
I was completely devastated. Mike and I had two weeks of further testing before we had assurance that our baby had died. And through it all, I prayed for a miracle, my miracle, that my baby would be alive again.
But in the end, God’s miracle was not that my baby survived. God’s miracle was the reassurance that He used me as a vessel to bring a tiny soul to Heaven.
A year later, I lost another child to miscarriage.
Today, I have a greater sense of love and appreciation for my four children here on earth whom I hug with my arms, and a closer tie to Heaven where my two babies are waiting for me, whom I can only hug with my heart for now.
Today you’re the mom of 4 happy and healthy children. What do you see as the greatest blessing about being a mom?
I would say learning patience, but my husband would laugh out loud at that…since I am probably one of the most impatient people there is.
So I guess I would have to say enjoying the journey. I live Psalm 118:24 every day of my life.
“This is the day that the Lord has made. We will rejoice and be glad in it.”
Life is messy. Things break. Kids get sick. But moms need to remember to enjoy the journey no matter where the journey leads.
Today at the Berg house, our washing machine is broken. Our mini van needs new tires. We are hanging onto Mike’s 1986 Jeep on a wing and a prayer, hoping it makes it another year or so.
There is mud on my kitchen floor, crumbs on my carpet, and I can honestly say that I love my life. Just as it is.
Now, I certainly have moments where I get stressed and discouraged, and can even lose my temper (just ask my kids), but I am also learning to enjoy each moment of every day as a gift from God.
And thorough it all, my simple hope and prayer is that I can be the mom that God wants me to be.
Where can readers learn more about you, Rattled, your other books, and your ministry to moms?
My website at www.TrishBerg.com offers tons of FREE resources, links and downloads for moms, as well as mor information on my books and ministry.
Moms can also purchase their own copy of Rattled by clicking here.
And I will be speaking at all 3 Hearts at Home Conferences in 2008, I would LOVE for you to join me there. The National conference is in March in Illinois, and in the fall there is a conference in Michigan and Minnesota. You can get more information and register at http://www.hearts-at-home.org/
Thanks, Trish, for joining us today. What a joy to meet you and learn more about your new mom book Rattled.
Thanks for having me. Blessings to you.
You can catch up with Trish all week long on her BLAST OUT BLOG TOUR by going to the following sites. There will be FREE book prizes, and great moms to connect with at each blog.
BLAST OUT BLOG TOUR for RATTLED
1/31/08
http://karenrobbins.blogspot.com/
2/11/08
http://stainedglasspickup.blogspot.com/
http://mommymonk.blogspot.com/
http://www.5minutesformom.com
http://pursuingsimplicity.blogspot.com
www.jaxcreations.blogspot.com
2/12/08
www.survivingthechaos.blogspot.com
www.tinaannforkner.blogspot.com
http://www.myspace.com/mommyszablewski
www.xanga.com/mommyeaton
www.Coldnoodlesforbreakfast.blogspot.com
2/13/08
http://godusesbrokenvessels.blogspot.com
http://triciagoyer.blogspot.com
http://genxparents.blogspot.com
http://sprightly-amyanne.blogspot.com
2/14/08
http://spaghettipie.wordpress.com
2/15/08
www.keriwyattkent.blogspot.com
http://ramblinroadstoeverywhere.blogspot.com
http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/cappuccinosmom
www.mommycomelately.blogspot.com
http://www.cornhuskeracademy.blogspot.com
www.karenehman.com
2/16/08
http://zyphe.blogspot.com/
http://carasmusings.blogspot.com
http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/martha
2/17/08
www.marybethwhalen.com
www.bookjunkieconfessions.blogspot.com
2/18/08
http://www.terragarden.blogspot.com
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I received this in an email this morning.
Please take a minute to read this. This is very scary and could happen to
> any of us.. Seems like every nice thing people do for one another can be
> perverted.
>
> A new twist on kidnapping from a very smart survivor:
>
>
> About a month ago there was a woman standing by the mall entrance
> passing out flyers to all the women going in. The woman had written
> the flyer herself to tell about an experience she had, so that she
> might warn other women.
>
>
>
> The previous day, this woman had finished shopping, went out to her car
> and discovered that she had a flat.
>
>
> She got the jack out of the trunk and began to change the flat. A nice
> man dressed in a business suit and carrying a briefcase walked up to
> her and said, ‘I noticed you’re changing a flat tire. Would you like
> me to take care of it for you?’
>
> The woman was grateful for his offer and accepted his help. They
> chatted amiably while the man changed the flat, and then put the flat
> tire and the jack in the trunk, shut it and dusted his hands off.
>
> The woman thanked him profusely, and as she was about to get in her
> car, the man told her that he left his c ar arou nd on the other side
> of the mall, and asked if she would mind giving him a lift to his car.
>
> She was a little surprised and she asked him why his car was on other
> side.
>
> He explained that he had seen an old friend in the mall that he hadn’t
> seen for some time and they had a bite to eat, visited for a while, and
> he got turned around in the mall and left through the wrong exit, and
> now he was running late.
>
> The woman hated to tell him ‘no’ because he had just rescued her from
> having to change her flat tire all by herself, but she! felt uneasy.
> (Trust that gut feeling!)
>
> Then she remembered seeing the man put his briefcase in her trunk
> before shutting it and before he asked her for a ride to his car.
>
> She told him that she’d be happy to drive him around to his car, But
> she just remembered one last thing she needed to buy. (Smart woman!!)
>
> She said she would only be a few minutes; he could sit down in her car
> and wait for her; she would be as quick as she could be.
>
>
> She hurried into the mall, and told a security guard what had happened,
> the guard came out to her car with her, but the man had left. They
> opened the trunk, took out his locked briefcase and took it down to the
> police station.
>
> The police opened it (ostensibly to look for ID so they could return it
> to the man). What they found was rope, duct tape, and knives. When the
> police checked her ‘flat’ tire, there was nothing wrong with it; the
> air had simply been let out. It was obvious what the man’s intention
> was, and obvious that he had carefully thought it out in advance. The
> woman was blessed to have escaped harm. (Amen, thank you, God!)
>
>
> How much worse it would have been if she had children with her and had
> them wait in the car while the man fixed the tire, or if she had a baby
> strapped into a car seat? Or if she’d gone against her judgment and
> given him a lift?
Its time to tease that hair and find those jelly shoes!! Its a 80′s dance MURDER MYSTERY DINNER!!!!
Our MOPS group is hosting this special Valentines event for couples and singles and everyone is invited!! Tell your family and friends and come eat a RAD dinner and totally get down as you dance the night away to your fave 80′s music and then try to solve the murder!!!
If you would like to come party with us, please call First Christian Church to purchase your tickets. You MUST call by the 3rd to RSVP. We need to make sure we have a head count and enough dinner for everyone. Costumes are highly encouraged but not needed. YOu will bet that I will be sportin’ my teased and sprayed hair and my funky fishnets If you saw me on halloween, that gave you a preview of how spookey 80′s I can look. – The funny part is for halloween when my daughter saw me, her eyes got all big like I was INSANE.. I laughed because that IS how I used to dress heheheheh… Its a good thing we got rid of all the”evidence” from that time!!
But please come join us and have a great time with your loved one or with a friend or with yourself. Tickets are $25 for couples and $10 for singles. 263 4818
